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The Return of Intimacy: Why Couples Are Choosing Smaller Ceremonies | The Ensora Journal

  • Writer: Kit & Kevin | The Ensora
    Kit & Kevin | The Ensora
  • Oct 5
  • 2 min read


A couple sharing a quiet moment after a helicopter elopement in the Vancouver mountains, reflecting the modern trend toward small, intimate weddings and meaningful connection

Introduction

In recent years, weddings have quietly transformed. More couples are stepping away from large gatherings and choosing smaller, more intentional ways to say “I do.” This shift isn't about following a trend or saving money, it's about rediscovering what feels genuine. Whether it's a private elopement in nature or an intimate ceremony with a few loved ones, the return of intimacy reflects a deep longing for authenticity, presence, and emotional truth.


A Cultural Shift Toward Authentic Connection

For decades, big weddings were symbols of joy and success. But many couples today are redefining what celebration means. After seasons of reflection, they're seeking something quieter, a ceremony that feels like home. Elopements and micro weddings allow space for eye contact, shared silence, and genuine emotion without distraction.


Emotion Over Exhibition

When there are fewer people present, the atmosphere changes. Every voice, every tear, every touch becomes part of the story. The focus returns to the relationship rather than performance. The beauty of intimate ceremonies and elopements lies in their emotional depth, presence replaces presentation.


Redefining Celebration

Choosing intimacy doesn't mean giving up celebration. It means celebrating differently, through meaningful rituals, quiet landscapes, heartfelt vows, or a shared meal after the ceremony. What matters is not how big the guest list is, but how deeply each person shares in the moment. These smaller gatherings often feel even more joyful, because every second is real.


The Power of Space and Silence

Smaller ceremonies give room for what truly matters. Space and silence carry emotional weight, allowing moments to breathe. In those still pauses, love becomes visible. Whether standing on a mountain ledge, in a forest clearing, or in a calm studio, the setting becomes secondary to what's felt, the quiet recognition between two souls.


The Future of Weddings

As couples continue to define marriage on their own terms, intimacy will remain at the center of modern wedding culture. These smaller gatherings, from elopements to micro celebrations, reflect a collective desire for mindfulness, sustainability, and soulfulness. In a world that often values more, this return to less feels like a return to truth.


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